Thursday, April 4, 2013

"Charity is a virtue of the heart, and not of the hands"....Joseph Addison
 
 
Here at Reconnecting Families, we fortunate enough to have an amazingly supportive community.  Cobb County is a great place to live and work and offers many great volunteers who come to RF with the willingness and desire to help.  Kathy Sisk and Jane Detzel are no exceptions.  These are 2 ladies who have joined the RF Friends of the Board and volunteer to babysit every Thursday night at Celebrating Families.  It is amazing to see these women grow and nurture relationships with the families of the FDTC.
 
 
 
Recently, a small boy made a gift (pictured above) for Kathy and Jane.  His tiny hands were so proud to share this ornament as a token of his thanks and affection.  Jane and Kathy have graciously offered to share their experiences in their own words: 
 
 
From Kathy...
 
These two young boys connected with Jane and I the moment we met, 8 wks ago. As we introduced ourselves, I knew right off the bat that I would not be able to remember their names (jane will have to tell you their names).  I asked if I could call them "J" (for the older boy) and "JJ" for the younger.  They agreed I could do that (later I found out that I am the ONLY one who can call them J and JJ).  These boys were so polite and well mannered.  Each Thursday at the dinner they were the first ones to greet us with hugh smiles and hugs.  We let their mother know much we thought of her sons, we felt that was very important (actually, I tell ANY mother if I encounter a well-behaved and well-mannered child).  On the next to the last week Jane and I gave the boys each a Dr. Suess book.  I gave J "Oh, The Places You'll Go" and Jane gave JJ "Oh, The Thinks You Can Think".  The mother said we knew the boys well, because each book fit their personalities.  That made me feel wonderful.  So, on the last dinner, JJ gave me the snowflake/artwork.  He asked that I share it with Miss Jane, we could take turns keeping it.  I tell you, I was about to cry.  I truly pray that these young men and their mother will continue on the road to recovery.  I am sure they will remember the good people who tried to help them in this difficult period of their lives.  Thanks for letting me share this story and for letting me make a difference in a young person's life.  Looking forward to continuing with Reconnecting Families.   
 
 
From Jane...
 
One of the dearest little boys @ Reconnecting Families made a snowflake out of tongue depressors,  various shapes of macaroni, lots of glue & plenty of pride & love,  for Kathy & me.  We have a mutual admiration concerning this mannerly & delightful youngster & his older brother.  When he handed Kathy & I this beautiful creation he was beaming with huge dimples showing & happy, big, bright eyes full of love.  Throughout the program Kathy & I have given these brothers books, St. Patrick's Day socks, made sure they got extra cookies & lots of hugs.  When Jahmorie gave us this gift he made - to share - we knew it would be treasured.  Kathy & I will take turns sharing the snowflake by displaying it in a place of honor in our homes.  It will forever remind us of great memories we have of this darling little boy.
 
THANKS JANE AND KATHY FOR ALL YOU DO!

 
 
 

Monday, April 1, 2013

Thanks Again to Our Friends at the Junior League!

Thank so much to the Junior League of Cobb Marietta!

A special thanks goes out to a few ladies from our friend and community partners at the Junior League of Cobb Marietta.  These busy ladies took the the time away from their families and schedules to come to the courthouse and office of Reconnecting Families to help organize the closet.  I think these ladies will agree that the clothes closet is a huge and special undertaking that we are proud to offer through Reconnecting Families.  We always need volunteers to come and sort clothes!

Thanks to the ladies of JLCM and come back to see us again soon!

For more information on our clothes closet click HERE!

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Easter is Almost Here!

 

Easter is Here and Reconnecting Families is Bringing Families Together...

Sunday March 24, 2013 marked the annual Marietta First Baptist Church's Easter Egg Hunt. First Baptist has become a great friend and sponsor of the Reconnecting Families' family. This church truly steps up to the plate when food or activities are needed for the families undergoing drug court. The major event sponsored by this wonderful church is the Annual Easter Egg Hunt, but First Baptist is also helpful with donating their time, facilities and congregation.

This past Sunday, despite the looming fears of rain or even snow (!), the families participating in the Family Dependancy Treatment Court program celebrated Easter alongside Judge Juanita Stedman, Board members of Reconnecting Families, and drug court employees. Easter is a holiday about healing and new life, and this day truly personifies the happiness of new lives that are filled with sobriety.  It was no surprise when, despite the gloomy forecast, the sun peeked out from behind the clouds and shined down on this event!

Pictures of the great day are soon to follow so check back in to see those adorable faces!

Thanks to the kind folks of Marietta First Baptist Church!

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Our Dear Little Worker Bees.....

Our donated clothes closet is one of the most valuable services offered by Reconnecting Families.  Through community outreach and donations, RF maintains a closet system where we accept donated clothes and household goods for our families and especially the children associated with the Family Dependancy Court and Juvenile Drug Court.  Clothes and donated items pour into this closet on a daily basis and RF is always in need of some able bodied hands to help our volunteers get the clothes organized, cleaned out and ready for our families to "shop".

Gail Brinkman
The clothes closet program has been lovingly lead by our very dear friend and volunteer Gail Brinkman for the last 5 years.  Gail tirelessly works in the closet to ensure each family has exactly what is needed and what is helpful.  What woudl we do without Gail??

Thanks Gail!

Also, this semester RF has had the fortune of being assisted in the closet by intern Monica Gutierrez.  Monica is active in her own church donation programs and has been assisting RF to ensure the closet runs smoothly.

If you would like to get involved and help these ladies by volunteering in our clothes closet, please email reconnecting.families@cobbcounty.org.
You can volunteer regularly or only one time, we need your help!

Monica Gutierrez

Monday, March 18, 2013

JLCM Helps RF with Baskets!

Junior League of Cobb Marietta helps out again!

Treatment Baskets are a big part of what Reconnecting Families does to make our FDTC participants successful in their new sober lives.  As a participant enters residential treatment, they are required to bring with them 2 weeks worth of food and personal hygiene items.  This may seem small, but for our participants who have been left with nothing due to a life of drug abuse, this is a huge expense.  RF provides a basket with all the necessary items to increase their chances of successful drug abuse treatment.

Our good friends, the Junior League of Cobb Marietta, donated and organized 17 treatment baskets for our FDTC families.

Thanks so much to the JLCM for all your hard work and dedication!!




Thursday, March 14, 2013

Reconnecting Families, Inc Celebrates 5 Years of Bringing Families Together....
 
 
If you might like to join us in celebrating, please rsvp to reconnecting.families@cobbcounty.org.
 
Tickets are $100 per person and going fast!
 


Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Wondering what to do with those old pots and pans?

RF Needs List


Do you look around the house some days and wonder what to do with the old clothes, household items etc...?  Or perhaps your Sunday school, Bible study, professional organization or civic group is looking for a charity to partner and grow a partnership?



Consider RF for your organization.  Reconnecting Families is always on the look out for toiletries, used household items, clothes, children's toys and wares.  Cobb County is an amazing community whose support and kindness makes RF such a success!

What does RF need?  The need is plenty, but here are a few items we suggest:

Needs List


**NON AEROSOL PLEASE!!!!!!

New Kitchen items:

• Bibs
• Child sippy cups
• Cleaning items: sponges, cleaners, paper towels, brooms, dust mops, laundry detergent, light bulbs, dishwashing liquid
• Dishes, bowls, glasses, utensils and cutlery
• Dish towels
• Measuring cups
• Pot holders
• gently used Pots and pans
• Small appliances
• Storage containers


New Bath Items:

• Bathroom tissue
• Personal toiletries: shampoo, deodorant, shaving cream/shaving razors and toothpaste
• Towels, wash cloths and bath set

New Bed Linens:

• Blankets: twin sized and full sized, comforters
• Pillows
• Sheet Sets: crib, twin, full and queen


New Miscellaneous Items:

• Batteries: all sizes
• Car Seats
• Children's Books and DVDs
• Crib-Baby Bed
• Diapers, Pull-Ups
• Gift and Gas Cards: Wal-Mart, Target, Kroger, CVS, et al.
• High Chairs
• Microwave Ovens
• Toys, Board Games, cards and puzzles

Thursday, March 7, 2013

Looking for a Way to get Involved? Read here...

Volunteers appear in all sorts of ways, sizes and ages...and in all sorts of shoes!

On Tuesday we posted about Monica Gutierez, the RF intern, who singlehandedly lead a shoe drive through her church.  The drive raised 136 pairs of brand new shoes, and the shoes were acquired by children!  These shoes helped the participants of the Family Dependancy Treatment Court feel good about themselves, after living a life of struggle.

What is amazing about the story is the shoe drive was done by the hands of small children, which shows anyone can make a difference!

Do you have an organization that might like to get involved?  If so, please reach out to:

Brin Black reconnecting.families@cobbcounty.org

See more pictures of the shoe drive, as they were being presented at the Restauracion Atlanta Penial church!


Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Shoes for the Soul!

In February, a little angel helped out the families of the Family Dependency Treatment Court!

Monica Gutierrez, the current Reconnecting Families intern, saw a need and decided to take action.  And take action she did!  Last week, Monica showed up with 136 pairs of shoes for the families of FDTC.  Allowing these families to overcome the shame of tattered shoes is just another way RF gives these families a hand up.

Here is how Monica made it happen, in own words...


I am currently an intern at Reconnecting Families. There is much to say about this opportunity I am grateful to experience, there is however, an aspect that has impacted me to go the extra mile. Watching children reconnect with their parents and receiving gifts of benevolent acts caused a spark of ideas in me. My idea? One hundred pairs of new shoes. I thought of nowhere better to start than my own church. 

I gathered the members of the ministry, "Speak Out" of Restauracion Atlanta, the church I currently attend, and presented to them my grand idea. "Let's collect one hundred, new pairs of shoes by the end of February." As all were in agreement, as well as encouraging, I took the next step in presenting it to my church. I read them statistics and explained the evident, yet unknown necessities our own and neighboring counties consists of. As February flew on by, and finally reaching the last Sunday of the month (in other words, the last day to accept shoe donations), we totaled in 136 pairs of shoes! I had no doubt my church would genuinely donate, but I am honest to say I was astonished by the immediate responses and surpassing our goal! I am glad to serve in making a difference in my community.


-- 
Monica Gutierrez




Thursday, February 28, 2013

Home is Where the Heart is- Help Needed!



Furniture and Help Needed!
 
 
So many of our donors and friends of RF ask us "What can I do?".
 
The #1 area RF needs help is with furniture and donations. Do you or anyone you know plan to move or have a need to donate furniture? Beds, dressers, living room items?? Call us at RF, WE NEED YOUR HELP!
 
Also, and perhaps more importantly, we need strong backs and trucks to help pick up and move furntiture for these deserving families! 
 
Can you or anyone you know help?

Call or email Brin Black- Executive Director
770.528.2291


Serta Bristol Way Pillowtop Queen-size Mattress Set

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Congrats to RF's Very Own Super Lawyer!

Congrats to RF's Very Own Super Lawyer!

Justin O'Dell has been a part of RF since the very beginning.  Over the years his networking, leadership and love of the program have been invaluable to RF's success.

We are proud to see Justin recognized in the community for his professionalism.



What is a super lawyer?


Super Lawyers Magazine
WHAT IS SUPER LAWYERS
Super Lawyers is a rating service of outstanding lawyers from more than 70 practice areas who have attained a high-degree of peer recognition and professional achievement. The selection process is multi-phased and includes independent research, peer nominations and peer evaluations.



CONGRATS JUSTIN!

Read about Justin HERE!

Monday, February 18, 2013

Community Involvement for a Good Cause!

On Valentine's Day, February 14th, 2013, several of our FDTC participants got involved! 





One Billion Rising was an amazing event and we are so proud that some of our FDTC moms, along with Juvenile Court Staff, participated side by side.

What is One Billion Rising?:

ONE BILLION WOMEN DANCING IS A REVOLUTION
On V-Day’s 15th Anniversary, 14 February 2013, we are inviting ONE BILLION women and those who love them to WALK OUT, DANCE, RISE UP, and DEMAND an end to this violence. ONE BILLION RISING will move the earth, activating women and men across every country. V-Day wants the world to see our collective strength, our numbers, our solidarity across borders

To learn more about this movement, click here:  One Billion Rising

Monday, January 28, 2013

Reconnecting Families is ALWAYS there for our Families...


At the end of this video is a young man named Quan Lewis.  Please see Quan's most recent note to the members of Reconnecting Families:


Dear RC Family,

            It’s me again , we have to stop meeting up like this ( me being in trouble and you guys saving me ). I would like to start this letter off differently by asking, can I join the RC Family? I mean honestly I want to be a part of the justice league as well. Second I would like to state that I’ve been trying to promote to the organization I’m a part of, called Knights of Pythagoras, to sponsor The RC Family.  I feel like I owe you guys that much.  And thirdly THANK YOU for helping me with school this semester and I’m SORRY ( that’s a word I don’t use often ) that every time we are in contact that it has to deal with me needing your help and not just a simple hello. It saddens me because I know you guys are really busy and have the whole world to share your blessing, and grace with.  I wish I had more to give then just my word currency, but sadly other than that and my appreciation I have nothing else to cover my debt. I ask you in the most humbling way to forgive me because you the RC Family deserves so much more, and if there is anything else I can do please don’t be afraid to contact me.

                                                                                                            Sincerely yours, Quan
 

Monday, January 21, 2013

For Drug Users, a Swift Response Is the Best Medicine

 

To see the full article, click here

 

For Drug Users, a Swift Response Is the Best Medicine


Ben W. Joseph was a trial judge in the Chittenden County Criminal Court, in Vermont, and he had a problem — one shared by judges across the country that results in billions of dollars of wasteful spending by governments every year. It was 2008, and substance abuse was soaring, particularly among young people whose drugs of choice were pharmaceuticals like OxyContin, a highly addictive pain killer that has an effect similar to heroin but is much easier to obtain. Each month in his Burlington courtroom, Joseph saw defendants who’d been arrested for drug-related offenses — from driving while heavily intoxicated to stealing to feed an OxyContin habit (an 80-milligram pill can cost $100 on the street).
Joseph saw how their lives spiraled out of control and created havoc for others. “I was seeing people who had drug and alcohol related charges come back over and over again,” he recalled. As the drug use intensified, so did criminality. “When people have serious alcohol and drug problems, it won’t take long before they’re stealing from their grandparents.” And when the pill market got tight, drug dealers pushed out more heroin.
What the defendants needed more than punishment was treatment. But delays in the justice system and lack of coordination with social service agencies meant that opportunities to intervene were regularly missed. Between a defendant’s arrest and trial, a case can drag on for a year or more.

One of the dawning recognitions in law enforcement and substance abuse intervention is that time is of the essence. The swiftness of a consequence is often more important than its severity. But while the mills of justice grind away, the immediacy is lost: feelings of shame, guilt and worry that can motivate change get buried and forgotten.
In the fall of 2008, through a chance phone call, Joseph was put in touch with Annie Ramniceanu, associate executive director of clinical programs for Spectrum Youth & Family Services, an organization in Burlington with a reputation for high-quality, substance abuse treatment and counseling. Ramniceanu knew that one of the critical factors in rehabilitation was “time to treatment.” “If people are given access to a solution quickly — ideally within 72 hours — the outcomes change pretty dramatically towards the positive,” she explained.
Together, she and Joseph devised an approach called Rapid Referral. Under Vermont bail laws, judges have the power, at the time of arraignment, to require defendants to participate in treatment programs if it’s necessary to protect the public or ensure that defendants appear at future court proceedings. Judges rarely take advantage of these laws early on, however; they usually wait for trial.
Joseph and his law clerk, Naomi Almeleh, drafted an order that would require select defendants in low-level, drug-related cases to undergo an evaluation to determine if treatment was appropriate. If it came back affirmative, treatment would be required for release. This kind of “bench referral” early in a person’s engagement with the justice system is unusual. The order guaranteed confidentiality and prohibited the use of information gathered during evaluations to be used against defendants. Those who completed treatment could expect reduced sentences; those charged with driving while intoxicated could use the counseling to satisfy requirements to get their driver’s license reinstated.
Ramniceanu worked closely with the court to implement the program, reserving slots at Spectrum, which serves youths up to age 23, to ensure immediate intake. (Older defendants were referred to HowardCenter, another program that provides substance abuse and mental health treatment.) “The key was offering sticks and carrots and compressing everything to provide a compact experience and rapid response,” explained Ramniceanu. “If the judge got the defendant to agree to treatment, they were given a map with little footprints leading them right to our door.” At both Spectrum and Howard, 95 percent of defendants showed up.
Rapid Referral doesn’t involve bureaucracy or additional costs. The treatment is covered by Medicaid, private insurance or, in a minority of cases, by a federal grant (which is now in danger of being a casualty of budget cuts). Spectrum employs a well-tested protocol called MET/CBT5 (Motivational Enhancement Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). The treatment is concentrated; many youths respond to six weekly sessions; others need 12 or more. For homework, they’re asked to write about their substance use. They have to undergo weekly urinalysis and continue counseling until they “sample sobriety.”
“We try to open up some discrepancy between the ironclad story they’re telling about their life and have them consider the possibility of something different,” explains Ramniceanu.
In retrospect, it seems merely logical: where drugs are the problem, why not expedite treatment rather than waiting a year? It’s the sort of instant referral that companies like Amazon.com do a million times a day. (If you’re charged with this crime, then click on this program…)
“Lots of people who show up in court are not even thinking of taking steps to change,” explained Bob Wolford, Coordinator of Criminal Justice Programs at HowardCenter. “What the judge does by offering them an assessment appointment right from the bench often gets them in motion.”
This June, researchers from the Vermont Center for Justice Research published an evaluation of Rapid Referral. Of 171 participants who went through Spectrum’s program since early 2009, the recidivism rate was just 18.7 percent. For a follow-up evaluation published this October, researchers generated a test control group of 394 people (selected from 14,000 whose criminal records closely matched those of program participants). They found that the recidivism rate among the control group was 84.3 percent. Many people were amazed.
People who know about treatment, including Joseph, were less surprised. Indeed, one of the hidden stories about substance abuse treatments was how effective, and cost-effective, it can be for reducing crime (pdf).Investments in evidence-based programs pay off in savings on things like police and court costs, emergency room visits and foster care expenses (to say nothing of easing the emotional pain of families and victims).
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But treatment is the exception. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, between a half and two-thirds of inmates in prisons or jails have an alcohol or drug dependence, yet only 7 to 17 percent receive treatment while imprisoned. Each year, some 650,000 inmates are released; many will relapse. When you consider the costs of probation or incarceration — $50,000 or $60,000 a year per inmate in Vermont — it’s hard to justify.
One of the program’s supporters is Michael Schirling, who has been Burlington’s police chief for five years. “What frustrates police officers most is having to go out and deal with the same thing over and over,” he explained. “They’re interested in a meaningful intervention that can stop the cycle of deterioration that somebody may be experiencing.” Rapid Referral is ideal for low-level offenders, he said. The key, he added, is selecting the right cases for intervention.
Despite its effectiveness, the program does have detractors. Some attorneys see it as an infringement on their clients’ rights, but the tougher obstacle is institutional inertia. In 2010, Joseph retired after 12 years on the bench. Since then, Schirling has observed that fewer defendants are being sent through the program. “What we had with Judge Joseph was a person who had institutionalized the process but it wasn’t yet part of the fabric of how the system worked everyday. That’s what the folks at the state level are trying to do now — get it replicated on an ongoing basis.” Schirling is hopeful that the recent evaluation will galvanize this process.
“If the judiciary can make referrals early, rather than waiting for cases to be fully adjudicated before someone gets assistance,” he says, “you will create outcomes that are better for individuals, the legal system and the community.” Joseph adds: “Treatment works to prevent crimes. Today, the costs are just staggering and this is something the judiciary can do to help.”

Monday, January 14, 2013

This girl has her smile back!!

Reconnecting Families, Inc. would like to thank Mr. Beau and Mrs.Kriya Benich from Benich Dental for gifting one of our mother's with dental work this past Christmas! 

Amber received four fillings and a partial. Amber is very grateful! She says, "I can now not look at myself every day and remember what I did, I can look at myself and know what I have done." 

The mission of Benich Dental is to foster and promote the wellness of the community. They have two offices: one in Woodstock, and one in Marietta. They offer a wide variety of dental services, which includes everything from diagnostics to dentures! 

Again, thank you Mr. and Mrs. Benich for everything you have done for Amber and the community! People like you make our society thrive!!!

 For more information on Benich Dental, please click here!!!


Monday, January 7, 2013

Congratulations to Judge Stedman for winning the Dr. Judith Hoyt Community Leadership Award!


Reconnecting Families would like to congratulate Judge Stedman for receiving the Dr. Judith Hoyt Community Leadership Award. This award is presented annually to an individual who has contributed greatly to helping accomplish the mission of the Extension. The award honors Judy Hoyt, a long-time Board Member of the Extension, who has generously supported the organization financially and with her time. 

2012 is the second year of the annual award. It was given out Saturday, December 1st, 2012 at the Extension’s 25th anniversary gala, which was held at the Marietta Country Club. The honoree is selected by the Board of the Extension, and Judge Stedman was chosen with a unanimous vote. According to members of the Extension, Judge Stedman was chosen for “her work in the Cobb County Drug Courts, her dedication to helping individuals and families with their recovery, her support of our organization as a friend, advocate, volunteer and donor. Her commitment to Cobb County is also why she was chosen.” 

Again, congratulations to Judge Stedman for winning the award! Also, a big thank you to the Extension for all the service they provide to our community and the recognition they give to Cobb County individual for their hard work. 





For more information on the extension, please visit their website by clicking here. 


Thursday, January 3, 2013

This is why we do what we do!


Recently, through RF funds, RF was able to purchase clothes and toiletries for a girl who has suffered a lifetime of issues.  She has now, FINALLY,  been placed in a facility that can help her and RF provided the basics like underwear, toiletries and basic clothes for her to be admitted.  Please read Sierra's heartbreaking story and know we all work on the RF project to help girls like her!  Attached are recent pictures showing how well Sierra is progressing in her new facility where she has successfully begun learning sign language. 
 
Thanks to you all!
 


 
 

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Sierra's Story (as written by her DFACS Worker)--

 

Sierra is 17 years old deaf child in our custody.  She has been in our custody for about 4 years.  When she was 3 years old, she had spinal meningitis which caused her to become deaf, but she received cochlear implants at that time which allowed her to continue to hear; therefore, she never learned American Sign Language.

A couple of years ago, she started having problems with the cochlear after coming into foster care and eventually lost all hearing.  About 2 years ago, we had her evaluated by several ENT's and a determination was finally made that her implants were not able to be repaired.  This news was devastating to Sierra.  Sierra also suffers from some mental health issues and is not able to fully comprehend why her ears can't be "fixed."  Over the past 2 years, she has gone in and out of crisis stabilization and PRTF hospitals as she has not been able to maintain in a regular foster care setting.  Amanda and I began working towards finding appropriate services for her about 2 years ago and we ran into multiple roadblocks... she didn't know ASL, there were limited providers who could even do ASL, placements would not take her due to her special needs and her behaviors, the school system felt that they were equipped to serve her, but they truly were not, her behaviors were too much for Atlanta School for the deaf, and there were no other options in GA, etc.

Amanda and I found the National Deaf Academy (NDA) in Mt. Dora, FL, but funding was our biggest hurdle.  The school system would not fund the educational piece b/c they felt they could serve her and DBHDD would not fund the mental health piece without the school approving the educational piece.  At that time, we got the state office involved and asked (begged) for some assistance to no avail until last week.  After almost 2 years of going back and forth, they have finally approved the funding to have her placed at NDA for up to 6 months where she will be immersed into the deaf population, taught ASL, receive services in ASL, and have her educational and mental health needs met.  We are absolutely thrilled, and we are flying out on Thursday morning to escort her to FL.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

An Amazing Article on Judge Juanita Stedman!

Teen turns life around with help from judge, National Guard
by Geoff Folsom
gfolsom@mdjonline.com
December 24, 2012 01:15 AM | 3318 views | 4 4 comments | 10 10 recommendations | email to a friend | print
After several visits to juvenile detention in the last two years, Braydon Foster has just graduated from the Georgia National Guard Youth Challenge Academy, a youth boot camp program at Fort Stewart. Above: Braydon stands in uniform with Judge Juanita Stedman, left, and his mother, Shawn Partridge, right.<br>Staff/Todd Hull
After several visits to juvenile detention in the last two years, Braydon Foster has just graduated from the Georgia National Guard Youth Challenge Academy, a youth boot camp program at Fort Stewart. Above: Braydon stands in uniform with Judge Juanita Stedman, left, and his mother, Shawn Partridge, right.
Staff/Todd Hull
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SMYRNA — A Smyrna teen says a Cobb judge gave him the gift of a new life this Christmas.

“If it wasn’t for you I’d probably be dead right now,” Braydon Foster wrote in a Dec. 3 letter to Juvenile Court Judge Juanita Stedman.

Braydon, 16, wrote that he was roaming the streets, skipping school and selling marijuana less than a year ago, and in February he will start college where he will learn to be a welder.

“I couldn’t have done any of this without your help,” he wrote. “I just want to tell you that you have made a difference in my life. A couple months ago I hated you with a passion because I didn’t realize that by you sending me away it really helped me.”

After Foster had been in and out of juvenile detention and house arrest nearly 10 times, Stedman gave him the option of either going to jail until he was 18 or attending the Youth ChalleNGe Academy, a state-funded military-style program at Fort Stewart near Savannah that is sponsored by the Georgia National Guard. The academy was recommended to Braydon’s family by his counselors at Campbell High School and it was brought to the judge as a possibility for keeping him out of jail.

At first, Braydon said he was reluctant to go. But his mother, Shawn Partridge, said Stedman didn’t give him much choice.

“He thought, ‘We have A, B, C and D to choose from,’ but we didn’t,” said Partridge, who raised Braydon as a single mother. “She said he has A or B.”

So he went to Youth ChalleNGe Academy in July. Each day, students rise at 5 a.m. and take three-minute showers. Every Friday, they get a “buzz” haircut. When Braydon graduated from Youth ChalleNGe Academy on Saturday, he said he was one of 212 of the more than 300 students to make it through. And 500 people had applied.

“Everybody sleeps in big barracks with 50 other dudes, military style,” he said. “Just think like you see on TV where they wake you up screaming in your face.”

Along with the military experience, the program also allows students to simulate high school and earn their GED, something Braydon took advantage of.

“It’s like boot camp with education,” said Partridge’s fiancĂ©, Allen Roberts. “But with the effect that they know they’re cared for.”

Now free and clear of high school, he plans to start a path toward a career as an underwater welder in February, when he enrolls in Fortis College near the intersection of Cobb Parkway and Windy Hill Road.

He also plans to work at the home inspection business owned by his mother and Roberts.

Stedman joked that Braydon will soon make more money than her. She said it made her day to receive the letter from Foster. She placed it behind her bench, where she puts reminders of the good part of the job.

“It truly reminds you of why you do the work,” she said. “When the days are really bad, the Braydons of the world remind you that they might be able to turn things around.”

Stedman was at Braydon’s home near Campbell Sunday evening for a welcome home party. She said the cases like his are the ones that keep her going.

“You usually don’t deal with the child a lot, but the family has been dealing with the crisis,” she said. “When they get to us, there are so many issues that you are the last resort.”

Attending the Youth ChalleNGe Academy turned things around for Braydon, and he would advise others in his situation, or their parents, to do the same thing.

“Find a way out of it,” he said. “The mindset I had, nothing would have changed my mind.”


Read more: The Marietta Daily Journal - Teen turns life around with help from judge National Guard

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Thank you SunTrust Bank Trusteed Foundations: Thomas Guy Woolford Charitable Trust.

A BIG THANKS to SunTrust!!
 
The SunTrust Bank Trusteed Foundations include the Greene-Sawtell and Elkin Foundations, the English, Marshall, and Rich Memorial Funds, and the Woolford Charitable Trust.  SunTrust Bank, as Trustee, manages the Trusteed Foundations and makes all grant decisions with the assistance of a Distribution Committee which approved a grant to Reconnecting Families Inc in the amount of $2,500.00 to provide new computers and equipment for the Juvenile Court GED/Mentoring Program.
 
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Monday, December 10, 2012

CNN Hails Drug Courts as Drug Policy Solution


Erin Burnett PHOTOS


CNN's Erin Burnett Out Front attracted many viewers in her segment on Drug Courts and the withdrawl from the "War on Drugs". Judge Pollack and the Broward County, Florida Drug Court are highlighted in this piece and bring some great statistics about Drug Courts and drug prevention to the table!

CNN states: "America has been hooked on the fight against drugs for decades. It cost more than $1 trillion dollars. But, there's a shift underway to revolutionize how America combats its drug problem.And it has the support of not only President Barack Obama but also his Republican rival Mitt Romney."

It is great to see that the White House is now trying to focus more on preventing drug abuse and offering more treatment options versus punishing those who need help.  

To watch the full video segment, please click here.